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Don’t Hire a Matchmaker (until you’ve made it through Julie Ferman’s Boot Camp)

1300 couples I’ve seen partner up over the course of 33 years in the matchmaker’s chair. It’s been a fascinating, wild ride and it’s taken me that long to perfect the craft.
Why does Personal Matchmaking work beautifully for some clients, and … not so well for others? It’s taken me over three decades to discover […]

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Are You Bored? Have You Been …. Boring? The antidote is here.

From time to time, has dating been for you BORING? Same old, same old? And a tougher question – Have you ever BEEN boring, to someone you’ve been with on a date? Not sure… well, you might actually ASK a few of your one-date-wonders why it was that Date Number Two never happened. Yep, that […]

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Santa Fe Dating, in 2020

Dating in Santa Fe is happening, for determined, persistent and creative love seekers of all ages.
As Santa Fe’s very own personal matchmaker, I’m surprised and delighted with the quality of the introductions I’m seeing happening, in and around Santa Fe, especially since things turned upside down this past Spring.
Love is a powerful motivator and for […]

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Dating Success Stories During the Pandemic Era

Can people date successfully during the COVID-19 era? Yes, indeed. Here is a real-life example of how one couple is gracefully overcoming the hurdles, making a meaningful connection, even now.
Bradley and Lara were both a Yes for connecting, but … it’s complicated. She cares for her mom, who’s got serious health issues, so Lara is […]

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Grown-Up Dating, By Force

A problem always presents an opportunity. Every time. Without exception.
Dating in the time of social distancing? Big problem, Yes? Which indeed presents opportunity. It’s not all bad, folks. Here is a real-life example of dating done well, even today, mid-April, 2020, when we’re asked to, required to stay at home, and for so many – […]

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First Dates Online? Yes, and here’s how.

I LOVE in-person introductions. AND if you’re sincerely seeking relationship, I say do NOT put your dating life on hold while you’re shut in at home.  Instead, build that Black Book, folks. There’s never been a better time to connect with people, as in many ways, we’re more accessible now than we typically are, with […]

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