You wouldn’t try to clean your face with a nasty, grungy, stinky rag, would you?
So, your matchmaker here has to ask this pesky question:
If the way you’ve been doing dating hasn’t provided the intended result, let’s throw out that nasty rag and let’s reorganize your love life, right here, right now. Like our mamas always said, “If you’re going to do something, do it right, or don’t bother to do it at all.”
So here’s how to do dating well–it’s actually pretty simple. Whip out a pen and a clean sheet of paper, and let’s do this together:
Know your beauty, know your strengths
First, let’s create the list of your Top Ten Elements of Appeal. Identify for yourself these qualities and characteristics that make you uniquely wonderful. The “goodies” that you bring to your future relationship, which will make having you as a partner worth all the trouble.
Then, highlight the Top Five – what it is about you that can and will touch and enrich the life of the man who will be by your side? Dating can be and often is an ego-deflating experience as all of those little and not to so little disappointments can and do take a toll.
How to keep your psyche strong throughout this roller coaster ride is to know and to remind yourself often as to the nature of your own beauty and fabulousness. click here to read the full article…